Over the course of the last couple of years I’ve been pulling together music from my collection to create a “Requiem for a Gay Man.” I’m not really sure why I started this project, I think I was getting nostalgic and sentimental about some of the folks I’ve known and lost over the years. Knowing I myself didn’t want to have a “traditional christian” style funeral – esp. since I’m an atheist and about as non-traditional as you can get when it comes to religious stuff, I wanted something uniquely “me” for my final good-bye. (not that I’m anywhere near death or anything, but hey – you never know your allotment, so I figured better safe than sorry and getting stuck with some weird, cultish funeral…)
Anyways, I ended up with three CD’s worth of music – a bit long for a requiem, lol. But it goes together quite nicely, if I do say so myself. Part I focuses primarily on “gay life” and “coming out.” Part II focuses on friends, family, and lovers. Part III is the actual “funeral dirge” with a solemn, reflective sentiment. Each “movement” begins with an interlude by Enya. In case you’re interested, here’s the full program (maybe someday it’ll be made into an amazing Broadway Musical, LOL):
[Edit: added links to YouTube versions of the songs, some performed by amateurs, some the original videos, others just slide shows, No Link = I couldn’t find it – also being YouTube, many times music vids get axed, so sometimes you’ll get dead links – bummer]
Part I: Life
- Enya – Miss Claire Remembers
- Queen – Bohemian Rhapsody (the commensurate “coming out” song)
- The Who – Behind Blue Eyes
- Ozzy – Crazy Train
- Rod Stewart – The Killing of Georgie (I & II)
- Rush – Nobody’s Hero
- Yaz – Anyone
- Billy Squire – Nobody Knows
- Camouflage – A Picture of Life
- Madonna – Live to Tell
- U2 – New Year’s Day
- Queen – Break Free
- The Fixx – Outside
- Peter Gabriel/Kate Bush – Don’t Give Up
- Yaz – Nobody’s Diary
- Melissa Etheridge – Silent Legacy
Part II: Love
- Enya – Oriel Window
- Madonna/Evita – Another Suitcase
- Kate Bush – Moments of Pleasure
- Enya – I Want Tomorrow
- Yaz – And On
- Jimmy Sommerville – For A Friend
- Elton John – Daniel
- Queen – Best Friend
- Pink Floyd – Wish You Were Here
- Cheryl Crow – Safe And Sound
- U2 – One
- Tatu – 30 Minutes (Russian Version)
Part III: Requiem
- Enya – Lothlorien
- Yaz – In My Room
- Madonna/Evita – Lament
- Seal – Prayer for the Dying
- Eurythmics – Peace
- REM – You Are The Everything
- Rush – Afterimage
- Queensryche – Silent Lucidity
- Melissa Etheridge – Talking to my Angel
- Yaz – Softly Over
- Queen – Who Wants to Live Forever/The Show Must Go On
- Enya – Cursum Perficio
- Styx – Castle Walls (pall bearer’s march)
- Jarre – Last Rendez-Vous (at the cemetery)
- VnV Nation – As It Fades (at cemetery)
What prompted me to write about this was because I went to a “memorial” performance last night for an awesome local comedic “drag performer,” who died a couple weeks ago from cancer. And one of the performers had selected Lament from Evita, so that kind of caught me off-guard, but it also validated my reasons for including it in my own requiem. Good-bye Geneva, and thanks for the laughs.
An early skit by The Dolls: http://il.youtube.com/watch?v=R8ULRY1nt4k&feature=related
Another friend died yesterday, again from cancer. So I revisited this entry to check the links and see if I could fill in or fix the links that are included here. I’m listening to this today. Sad days. Rest easy “Beast,” I think of you every time a Harley rumbles by. . .